Interview with Julie, Inmate's Sister, Claire, Jim, Smyth, Ken, Charlene, Greg, GMan, Jamie, Leisha, Toby, Lisa and Consuela
JM: Is there anything else you would want a friend or family member to know if they have a loved one going to jail? Julie: Please pray for them thats a hard place to been
in i was only there for 6 days and it damn
near broke me i cna only imagine what is like
for those who have to stay longer Inmate's Sister: just save enough money where you could afford a
good lawyer because the court appointed ones
dont try they best Claire: I think that pretty much sums it up. I mean, it's hard to know what
to expect because what's tough or difficult for one person to cope
with may not be so much for another person. Just stay supportive,
write them letters and/or visit if you can, and don't abandon that
person just because they are in jail. We all make mistakes. Some of
us just get caught. Jim: The booking process takes at least 36 hours.
Always remember when being booked in and walking
any where in the jail you must walk with your
hands behind your back or they will jump on you
fast. They tell you this at the booking process.
Wear a white t shirt, white socks and white
boxers before going in. Anything other than
white they will take away. You cant wear your
tennis shoes. You must wera their shower shoes
to court unless going to trial. Smyth: Give them a gun and a bullet first so they have
another choice. Ken: Where "white only" socks and underwear. Charlene: yes, pray, that is the only thing that got me
through it. Greg: rememeber everyone is nervious about jail either
if you assume the judge., is crap or not assume
for your shakes you go in there and give credit
where it's due, yourself, learn, live and move
on, this is your being bigger than the ceel
block your in, nothing can change you, you will
be the same when you leave. a Good person. GMan: Keep to yourself, do not make friends. Once you
open your mouth you are a commodity. If you keep
your mouth shut, you are an unknown....it's better
be an unknown. Jamie: stay away Leisha: YES,CALL YOUR LAWYER,BECAUSE HARRIS COUNTY DOES
ALOT OF RACIAL PROFLING Toby: just visit them and write to them that always
help me keep in good spirits. Lisa: If you are of an alternate faith,Have a book of
those scriptures(or sayings,etc) on you. If you
are deaf or Hispanic,the officers take too long
trying to find someone to interpret. Consuela: Our freedom comes on the other side of the pen.
Letters, pictures, visits, or money make time a
little easier.Everyone messes up, no ones
perfect. If you were smiling in their face in
the world and aren't there while they are locked
up....they won't forget.
JM: Is there anything else you would recommend to a future inmate? Julie: Keep your mouth shut at all times Inmate's Sister: make sure you dont do nothing wrong to get you
in the system becasuse once you in you will take
the case for anything or anyone. Claire: Like I said, it's hard to know what to expect. The best thing to do is
mind your own business, be yourself, and try to find something to
keep you busy. Jim: Do your time, stay away from the cowards in the
gangs. Just keep to yourself and you'll be okay. Smyth: A gun and a bullet. Ken: Bring as much money as you can to put on account
for the commessary and wear white underwear and
socks. If you want to get out on time, make sure
all of your fines are paid in advance. They will
keep you longer if you owe money to pay it off.
Information is hard to come by once you are in
there. Ask any questions you have before you
show up. In my case, I was given a report date
to turn myself in. Be on time, do what you're
told, mind your own business and get it behind
you. Good Luck. Charlene: yes, don't go in with an injury, cuz I saw an
officer pull a girl off the bench by her injured
foot. He drug her down the hall by her foot.
If the other officers had not told him to put
her in a wheel chair, there is no telling what
would have happened to her. The date is even
marked in my mind. July 18th, 2008 Greg: Eat a big meal before you go into the drop the
soap jailhouse of blues, lots of hatered but god
saves everyone. Jamie: learn your lessons the 1st time and choose your
battles wisely Leisha: WHEN YOU GET OUT OF JAIL DON'T GO BACK; AND
CONTACT SOMEONE WHO CARES Toby: just stay to yourself and nobody will mess with
you.don't get in nobody else business and that's
basically it.. Lisa: Stash a deck of cards in your shoe.They won't be
as likely to confiscate them. Consuela: Keep your head up, stay strong in your faith and
take mental note not to mess up like this again.
I also suggest don't listen to any of them jail
house attorneys, get a real attorney. God has
the final say so, no matter what.
I was sentenced to 3 days in county and have heard that if you have already been to court and been sentenced that you may not spend the full amount of time. Is that true?
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I have read everyones comments and mostly agree what everyone is saying. I have a few points to make. First of all, you are guilty until you prove yourself innocent. Unless you have alot of money to throw away on bond, you will sit in there until you loose everything. I have pled guilty on charges just to get out and now these charges are biting me in the ass. Your chance of beating a charge or getting charges lowered (to where they should have been to start with) while your wearing ORANGE is next to impossible. I had to felony trumped up charges that they were trying to give me 2 years TDC until I bonded out after 86 days. Only then they were willing to lower my charges to misdemeanors and gave me time served. When you go to court wearing a suit they treat you like a human. In orange, you don't have a chance. They are going to stick it to you. Oh, and never take the first offer. Everything is negotiable. Its like buying a car or house, you dont pay asking price! They come at you with an offer and you counter offer (alot of times, more than once). For those of you that have loved ones in there, they need money on their books for commissary. The jail gives you (most of the time) a small bar of soap, a tiny almost useless tooth brush and some crapping tiny toothpaste when you get booked in but thats IT! You don't want to ask others for anything. But a person needs to be able to wash there hair, brush their teeth and definitelt deoderant. Other inmates don't want to give you anything (its not there job to take care of you) but they will throw you in the shower if they think you even might smell. Even if its only $20 a week, its a life saver in there. Don't leave your loved one cold, hungry and smelly. Let them keep what little pride they have left.
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If you are going to be in the Harris County Jail for a period of months, make the most of it. Take GED classes, work on your drug or alcohol problems, spend time reading, and take any programs or classes available to you. Become a trustee if possible. Don't just sit there and feel sorry for yourself or brood about how life is so unfair. Don't involve yourself in anyone else's problems or disputes. Don't talk about your case with anyone except your lawyer, and that means not your mother, sister, or best friend. Keep your head down, mouth shut, and your mind busy and you will come out of the experience ok.
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Just stay to yourself. If ya did the "crime" then do the time". Take responsibility for your own mistakes. And if you have to do prison time, again, just stay to yourself. Read whatever and accept the things you can't change. Time marches on and it will be ok.
Also don't give your meds to anyone, (they are prescribed for you), Pray, attend church services, and use the time to
reflect on what got you there in the first place, then, LEARN from your mistake. Jail is not fun, but it could be alot worse. Be thankful that you get food, a place to sleep, and remember you could be out there homeless, hungry, ect. so be thankful.
As for the noise, deal with it! You'll survive. Be honest treat the deputies, and all authority personel with RESPECT. They are only doing their job!!!!!! You give respect, you'll get some back.
Just my 2 cents worth.
Sherry
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